Saturday, March 19, 2011

What Make You Happy?

What make you happy???
What happy is all about?
Does the all people have the same definition of happiness?

Defination of happiness from Mr. Wikepedia.
Happiness is a mental state of well-being characterized by positive emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.[1] A variety of biological, psychological, religious, and philosophical approaches have striven to define happiness and identify its sources.

So, happiness is something that subjective. There is no absolute definition. What make you happy might not work for others. After all, it's all about how we perceive our life. What we want.

For most of people, the value/definition of happiness change over the time.So again, happiness is not absolute.


A poor father will be happy if his children can enter university and get the scroll of degree even in the eyes of others the degree alone will not guarantee to get a good job.

A new graduate student feel excited and happy after finally there is company that willing to hire him/her.

A girls will be happy when a man,her long life lover ask her for marriage.

A leader of country will happy when get votes in election and can lead the country for the next term. He happy to serve rakyat again.

An imam in the mosque surely will happy when he see the number of people that attend the jamaah prayer in mosque increases. He knows this means people's awareness has increased and Islam is main priority in people life.


What Make me Happy?
For me, i am feel very happy when people around me happy.Ya,can't you believe that?

Really???

Ya.

I feel very happy when a friend told me happy story like when they get a new job and find their love.

Last few days,a friend of mine buy the new car, a Proton Perdana V6. He was soo happy. He was telling me to buy that car long time ago an finally make it reality. The thing that make me happy is because he has nothing much in his life. He was born in poor family and because of poverty, he never finish the school, i mean the proper education. He only learn religious matters in 'pondok'. Because of his family background, he knows nobody will respect him. That's why when he got a chance to but the Perdana, he feel so happy because he think by that way people will respect him.


Even i disagree with his way to buy that exclusive car with the intention to show off, but still appreciate and respect his feeling to be happy with that.He has the right to feel happy.

Why? Because I know, If you have nothing, nobody will cares of you.

For most of time, as the life goes on, i start to release a lot of things. Happiness is not something you can touch. People can take photo of their own, showing their smiling face and put it of Facebook. When friends look to this picture, they think she/he is happy. However, that's not true. Yes at the time the picture is captured but at the time when friends see the picture, it might turn different.

Happiness is something that we chase. When we get what we want, we start looking other things to chase or make us happy. That's the way life works.

Anyway, remember this quote.

There is no real happiness in this life until the death is coming

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Hening Malam

Assalamualaikum
Tatkala saya menulis entri pendek ni, jam dah pun menunjukkan hampir pukul 2 pagi.
Baru pulang dari kerja tadi. keje shift.

Ini adalah hari kedua berkerja di department ni selapas dibuka semula isnin lalu.Sebelum ni, department ni ditutup kerana banyak sangat masalah, and the biggest problem ialah tak generate profit pun.

Ini pun buka balik just for a week. If it is ok,selepas diaorang buat analysis, jualan product dapat menampung gaji perkerja dan ada untung, maka akan diteruskan production. Kalau tak,maknanya kena tutup dan saya pun terpaksa cari kerja lain.

Saya pun tak kisah sangat kalau tutup because saya sendiri memang sedang mencari kerja lain. Sejak awal-wala masuk lagi saya memang menganggap yang kerja ni sebagai kerja sementara sebelum dapat kerja baru. Ingat nak kerja 2 atau 3 bulan je tapi sekarang dah melarat ke hampir 7 bulan. Rupa-rupannya pencarian untuk nak dapatkan kerja bukan sesuatu yang mudah.Ia betul-betul memeningkan kepala saya.

Nak sambung belajar duit tak ada walaupun sebelum habis belajar lagi dah ada tawaran.Ditambah pula dengan tekanan saya anak kedua, perlu bantu keluarga. Tanpa kerja yang elok dan gaji yang sepatutnya saya dapat, mana mungkin saya dapat bantu keluarga. Gaji sekarang pun cukup makan je, bagi duit kat mak pun jarang-jarang.

Hidup memang tekanan dan lebih memmeritkan kalau tak ada tempat nak dilepaskan(melainkan blog ni je). Orang lain happy ada keluarga yang baik dan bahagia, saya pula terseksa sebab banyak hal menyakitkan hati berlaku. Tak tau nak cakap apa. hanya Allah yang tahu.

Sesetengah rakan saya yang terjumpa blog saya sebelum ni salah faham sangat-sangat kat saya.Sebenarnya apa yang saya tulis kat sini tak mengambarkan sangat diri saya kat dunia sebenar. Saya seorang yang bermotivasi, berkeyakinan dan sentiasa tabah. orang yang pernah bercakap dengan saya pasti tahu sapa saya. Apa yang saya tulis disini hanyalah sekadar luahan perasaan. Tak lebih dari itu.

Sekiann, untuk kali ni.jumpa lagi. Best pulak tulis gaya tak formal macam ni.

Jazakallah Khair

Wasalam.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Welcome Back

Assalamualaikum and peace to all

Suddenly, i feel that i have to activate this blog again.

I have closed this blog since last because i have open a new blog with my own domain. So, for more than a year,I just concentrate on that blog and have been writing on various topics.

But then, most of the people that come across my new blog have the perceptions that it is serious blog.I discussed serious issues such as social problems, films, world issues, religion etc. even though i have written few personal story but i feel it is inappropriate for me to write on this site regarding my personal story.

So, the reactivation this old blog will me a medium for me to write my personal life while the other blog will used as the platform to give my idea, opinion, criticism on the everything happen around me and throughout the world.

Thank you.

Jazakallah Khair

Wasalam.