Dates always play important
role in our lives. After all, it’s represent the passing of time and the
milestones in its own way.
Ya, a milestone!!!
Just look at to yourself.
How far you have move till now. Stand in front of mirror and look to your
pictures when you were young, at school, university or at the time you are
still single. Of course, you physical appearance had changed, maybe look like
Hollywood actor in your favorite movies or if you are girl you might look like
Aishwarya Rai with her beautiful eyes and hair. Whatever your physical
appearances, that not really you have to bother, rather than the other changes
that you have go through;- financial, emotional, mental as well as maturity that
you’ve acquired through your experiences.
Because of that, we always
celebrate the important date such as achievement, birthday, wedding
anniversary, new year, Aidilfitri, Thaipusam, Mother’s day, Father’s day and
any other date that signify it’s important to our life. In fact, Malaysia is
amongst the countries that have many public holidays, no wonder due to the fact
that it’s comprises many races and every race’s festival should be celebrate.
Most of people regardless
of race and religion looking forward a New Year to effect of personal change,
due to the fact New Year is always be consider as stating point of new things.
New year is the chance to left all the bad memories and start new year with
fresh life. People started to think what they want in next year,
anxiously come up with plan to make their dream come true. The spirit is
booming though the road to in next year might have same obstacles as this year.
Anyway, this the rights
approach of life. We have to move to be a better person. But the change is not
easy as going to Dataran Merdeka and celebrates for the coming New Year with
the hope of the coming year will be more preposterous year. The fact is nothing
will change overnight. You still wake up in 1st January and perhaps carry same
problems as you have in 31 December 2011. You still have to face the same bos,
colleague and people around. Nothing will change overnight. If that so, why we
have to much bother for new year!!!. Right? ermm...
The fact is nothing will
change by themselves. You can’t just simply sit and doing nothing about them,
simply because it’s all depend on our free will. It’s start with realization
that something has to change, dept analysis of the situation and the action
need to be take to achieve the resolution. It’s also with realization that it’s
going to be hard and long journey. Like other journey, it will lead you
somewhere as long as you have your destination right even the first step might
be slow and tough.
But just try to look at
this way. Any day is a good day to change our life without having to wait a
meaningful date to come. If that the way we life, then we could just wasting
our time. At any time you realizes that something wrong with your life, take
action to change. Do not wait until a certain time. The fact is how many people
actually who consistently have spirit to work for the thing they dreams in the
beginning of New Year? The fact is most people are stumble upon in the middle
of year or loss concentrate to make dream into reality when a challenge comes.
Anyway, Happy New Year and
keep improve your life.
The Malay Reserve
31 December 2015
11:55 pm
The Malay Reserve
31 December 2015
11:55 pm
